Why Should Your Personal Development Be Cookie-Cutter Impersonal?

Many of the World’s Most Powerful Couples
Already Practice the Discipline of Love

Dear Friend,

If you debate with yourself about whether you are going to get the insights, experiences, breakthroughs and community you need from your next intensive workshop, you’re about to be extremely happy.

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • 80% of your seminar is boring
  • You don’t relate to the people in the lines of chairs next to you
  • You wonder if you wasted your money, but you work to get value anyway
  • After the workshop, nothing changes in your life

If any of that rings true for you, you’re going to get a lot out of what we have to share with you. You see…

This Is Your Chance To
Communicate Your Exact Personal Development Needs—
And Satisfy Them

You see, Amber Lupton and Nathan Otto – more about them later, you’ll be amazed – spent years creating a process personally tailored to take you to your next level of awesomeness. Not a toolbox. Not modules. Specifically. About. You. Personally.

I know that might be hard to believe – how could someone who doesn’t know you yet get inside and find the exact code to unlock your stuck and rocket your life? I’d be skeptical too.

But here’s what Amber and Nathan do, based on decades of spiritual practice, teaching, coaching and global leadership in the field of peace and security (really!):

  • Listen to and understand your deepest problems, needs and dreams – in the areas of personal relationship, contribution, or spiritual growth
  • Design personal outcomes for you based on listening to and understanding you
  • Build a series of group teachings and experiences designed specifically to give you incredible breakthroughs in those areas – harnessing the power of small group processes with highly intelligent, accomplished people carefully selected
  • You experience not only the breakthroughs – but practical, intensive follow-up that puts the changes you want to experience into your life.

This might sound wild or impossible – how could everyone experience the breakthrough they need? It’s because Amber and Nathan are literally genius at what they do. They work at a level you have never experienced before – explicitly at the level of the field of transformation generated by their facilitation of the group. In fact…

Here’s What REAL People Say:

Michael Ellsberg, Author
Power of Eye Contact and Education of Millionaires, Forbes

Alex Allman, Author
Revolutionary Sex

Bryan Franklin & Jennifer Russell
Silicon Valley executive coaches and thought leaders

Alicia Dunam
Bestselling facilitator

Now you see it really does work…

Here’s Why It Works So Well

As you know, the way everyone else tells you to get the personal transformation you crave is to take their cookie-cutter symposium, workshop, or seminar. But they make a huge assumption, and it’s WRONG – they assume that YOU are the SAME as EVERYONE ELSE! They leave you to try to figure out if THEIR workshop fits YOUR needs! It’s all about them and their method and what they are going to cram into your head.

That’s hit-or-miss. Mostly miss, if we’re honest between us.

Now sometimes it clicks – which is great, right? You get exactly what you need through their method, approach, model, insight, practice, idea or reframe. But personal development is like a ladder – you need just what you need when you need it. What good is a rung on your ladder ten feet over your head, or worse, already beneath you? So, realistically, what are the chances that any workshop you take is going to be the perfect thing? Nearly zilch.

Sometimes you might do what a lot of smart people do – you design your own transformation. That works better than a lot of the “transformation” that is foisted on people who just want to grow. The thing is, it’s slow and uncertain that way. Working on yourself is hard, and often the exact thing you need is in your “blind spot”.

There is an approach that creates the high-velocity transformation that you want – focused on your next steps, insights, roadblocks and how you want your life. It’s not what most people think. It’s really simple.

Amber and Nathan listen to what you need, then they design the whole workshop to create that for you.

You might think this is hard – doesn’t everybody have a different need? This is where what Amber and Nathan provide is unique. They consciously harness synchronicity, group energy and the direct, straightforward application of intuition in a way that will blow your mind. Because the whole “field” calls for exactly what you need to grow, it works.

This doesn’t happen randomly. Amber and Nathan go through an intense process before each workshop, personally considering each participant. They interview and prepare each person beforehand. They discover your unique gifts and energies that will contribute to another’s needed transformation. Then, they craft their facilitation, experiential exercises and the structure of the whole workshop to ensure that you get what you need, and in the process, everyone else also gets what they need.

Because of this process, only 28 people, balanced with men and women, are accepted into each workshop…

Introducing: Discipline of Love Four-Day Intensive

Amber and I created the Discipline of Love Four-Day Intensive when we saw how many powerful, evolutionary men and women–people like you that we are counting on for global change–were sidetracked by unwelcome interruption, pain and energy drain from their intimacies. Normally, evolutionary couples are sustained and inspired by their relationships–so when an evolutionary couple goes south, what is normally a huge positive turns into a huge negative–it’s painful to witness, and even worse when it’s you.

In the past when Amber and I had difficult moments, we found we were so embarrassed to have a “problem in the relationship” that we didn’t want to turn to our friends for help–because we were supposed to be all “evolutionary” and enlightened! Right? After all, people looked to us as an example in relationship. Ahem. Well, that kind of thinking didn’t help us at all–plus our friends can tell anyway, who did we think we were fooling?

Once we get over ourselves and practice what we know, things straighten out instantly. And we expected the same from other evolutionary couples–but we were disappointed! You see, the worst part is that over and over we see creative, powerful people working diligently to repair and deepen their love and intimacy…by doing the wrong thing.

This issue appeared so urgent to us, and the answer so obvious, that we set out to create a system for any evolutionary couple to leap to the next level.

And judging by all the feedback Amber and I have already gotten, I’m quite confident it can bring you to the next level of intimate love as well.

You see, we have created this so that you can first understand the hidden forces that have scripted your intimate life, and then transcend them, and then recover boatloads of energy, optimism, focus and attention–while living the most juicy, powerful, sexy intimacy you can imagine–or better!

All of this is delivered in a personalized, tightly designed, four-day intensive taught personally by me and Amber. After four of the most mind-blowing, insightful, world-changing days of your life, you will answer all your deepest dilemmas, and go home with your simple, clear, personalized practices that save you time and magnify love.

You’ll discover:

  • Why the taboo against pleasure holds you back from everything you want
  • The answers to your deepest questions of love, sex and intimacy
  • Your 100% responsibility in relationship–and why that gives you the power to “create” your partner–and the flexibility to be “created”
  • Your own unconscious patterns that undermine love–and become free of them
  • A new way of feeling and knowing that gives you superpowers of intuition
  • How to invite and participate in the sacred domain of life–and feel it as real
  • Why and how to receive feedback from the same sex
  • The incredible benefits of relating to your same sex in deep friendship
  • The healing power of sacred theatre
  • A community that transcends relationship as “problem” and generates continuous love and generous reflection
  • Why “losing face” and humor are NOT the same as humiliation and joking–but they are your ticket to deep enjoyment
  • A deeper relationship to your body that magnifies your attractiveness and charisma
  • Fresh take on “willpower” that gives you the power to make any decision about your life and stick to it without fuss or drama
  • A new, practical and profound understanding of human psychology that gives you instant access to understanding motivations in everyone around you
  • The secret to “switching on” and “switching off” irresistible attractiveness
  • How and why to influence how others relate to you–especially your intimate partner
  • An participatory experience that blows the lid off your ideas about love, sex, intimacy and relationship

And although this sounds like your investment is going to be tons of money… it won’t.

Access To the Discipline of Love Four-Day Intensive
Is Only $3,000 $1495 Per Person, or $5,000 $2495 Per Couple


I know, you might be wondering, “What’s the catch?” Because until now, only elite millionaires with VIP access–and who also passed the test to be an “evolutionary couple”–were able to get anything like the Discipline of Love from me and Amber or anyone else.

In fact, besides Amber and me, there are only three other people in the world that I would trust to create this transformation in you…

  • One of them is one of our most important teachers and mentors–he is nearing retirement, and charges double the price for a 2- 1/2 day intensive (it’s worth it!)
  • Another is his teacher–who is also our teacher and one of the most extraordinary man I know–but he is living the simple life of a spiritual renunciate, and to be in his company requires extensive preparation
  • The third is a dear friend, a Hollywood counselor that Amber and I hope to be teaching this work with in the coming years–but her client list is so exclusive she might as well be writing articles for People Magazine, and that keeps her occupied. Seriously, yesterday she called me from a private jet on her way to Majorca, Spain to spend one day at the request of one of her clients.

So why would Amber and I put together this training? My coaching partnership is paid $35,000 per month retainer for five or six days of work by corporate clients. Amber and I have designed customized programs for rock stars and philanthropists–of course the same confidentiality that protects you prevents us from saying exactly who.

Working with the Safe Conflict Project, Amber and I convene “Peace Synergizers” at which leaders in business, philanthropy, government and conflict resolution create long-term practical plans for causing global peace–which, if we had it, would be worth over $8.7 trillion per year! Now that’s real value, right?

The answer is–it’s time for us evolutionary people to evolve faster–and we know how to do it. Amber and I, like you, feel personally responsible for the evolution of humanity. The reason we are offering this workshop in a straightforward way, for the minimum workable cost , is because we all need to do this.

And when you add up the cost to you of sidetracked projects and untapped potential of love and contribution–how much it would it be worth to you to free your energy and attention? Unresolved questions and suppression in intimacy are like having invisible slimy life-sucking alien parasites feeding on your potential for wealth and contribution–until they are seen through and disappear.

That’s just the savings–the real positive value is in the experience of the deep, rich, connected intimacy that you could be enjoying every day–even if you know you already have a great relationship! Amber and I are constantly astounded how the bar for love, sexy hotness, simplicity and enjoyment keeps getting set higher and higher.

But the highest value is transcendence–the lived experience of the sacred domain, discovered and verified in your own experience–with no effort, you become an authority on things spiritual. Because you see it directly, in every moment, plain as the nose on your face. But, we know that the energy required for this spiritual transformation is bound up in your emotional-sexual patterns–unless you make them conscious and live life on a different basis. We intend that freedom and transcendence for you.

But truth be told, it’s also important to us to make sure you get a great value. It’s good for everyone, since you’ll feel free to recommend this to your friends. And that helps us help more people.

You see, have you noticed how everyone goes all weird when it comes to spirituality, sexuality, and money? –like we can’t just be straightforward about it! It’s because there are so many charlatans and scams and snake oil being sold based on people’s fears and naïve hopefulness. We hate that.

To get this kind of transformation on your own, you’d have to drop everything, like I did, like Amber did, and make a years-long, thorough, fearless investigation of sexuality, spirituality, love and relationship. And you would have to be very fortunate in your teachers, as we have been and continue to be.

It’s been in the back of my mind, and Amber’s, that teaching these intensives is wonderful but very demanding work, and because we can’t easily duplicate ourselves because of the deep training and nuance, we may have to raise our prices.

But you won’t need to worry about that! Acting fast has its rewards:

There is Still Some Space On The Discipline of Love Four-Day Intensive

Just click the Register button below…

We’ve extended the early bird price of $1495 per person and $2495 per couple because our friends asked us to…they needed time to talk to their friends about going. Now, we’ve limited the participants to just 30, and spots are going every day…

So like you, we make big decisions quickly once we have all the information we need. The famous Sufi poet Rumi said, “it is not whether you listen to your heart. It is how quickly you act on what you hear.” Go ahead and click on the link to get your spot and get started on the Discipline of Love Four-Day Intensive.

And one more thing you should know:

Sounds pretty fair, right?

And remember –

Here’s Everything You’re Getting:


  • The Discipline of Love Four-Day Intensive
  • Immediate access to all content on the Discipline of Love membership site
  • FREE participation in all remaining training calls live with Amber and me
  • FREE participation in at least three follow-up calls after the Discipline of Love Four-Day Intensive
  • Membership and access to Discipline of Love alumni events

With that said…

Here’s What To Do Now :

As you can see, I tried to make this as easy as possible for you.

As soon as you sign up, you’ll get instant access to everything I mentioned–a free Discipline of Love membership, which includes access to ongoing video trainings, access to participant-only preparation calls; the Discipline of Love Four-Day Intensive live workshop taught by me and Amber; free access to three alumni-only integration live teleseminars after the Intensive; and access to evolutionary alumni events scheduled for next year.

Once you click the Register button, you’ll be taken to the Discipline of Love EventBrite registration site. There, you’ll choose Couple or Individual.

Enter your name and your credit card information. If you want to pay by check, just email me at “nathan at-sign disciplineoflove dot com”. Important: your ticket covers all sessions with no extra fees. Your transportation and lodging are your responsibility–but Amber and I will make every effort to make it convenient, comfortable, clear and cheap for you.

The process is extremely simple and you can look forward to tangible benefits starting with your first free preparation teleseminar. So go ahead and fill out the order form now and I’ll look forward to seeing you on the “other side”:


Yours in service,
Nathan Otto

P.S. Remember, just 30 participants get in — we have space now.
Click here to register for the Discipline of Love Four-Day Intensive.

P.P.S. Remember you have absolutely nothing to lose because if you don’t experience a much greater value than I am promising, you can get 100% of your workshop fee refunded the next day. Click here to get started.

P.P.S. You’re still here. You’re obviously interested. You obviously don’t want to continue living with your doubts, compromises and painful distractions–and you do want juicy, hot, free, sustained love, sex and intimacy. By participating and investing in yourself, you can have this all cleared up. Do this exercise we will do in the Intensive, called “no delay”. Simply make your decision now–what do you most want to say yes to? Ignore your doubt–it’s not you, is it?–and use your simple but awesome power of decision. I totally trust you to make this decision. Allow the magic–especially considering I’m guaranteeing your transformation. Take advantage while the opportunity is in front of you… honor the time you have put in thus far, and don’t look back.